{"id":47,"date":"2007-07-18T15:38:39","date_gmt":"2007-07-18T20:38:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/forgiveit.com\/?page_id=47"},"modified":"2014-07-06T07:07:16","modified_gmt":"2014-07-06T12:07:16","slug":"unrealistic-expectations","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/?page_id=47","title":{"rendered":"Unrealistic Expectations"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>By Roy Waldrom<\/strong><br \/>\n<strong>Unrealistic Expectations<\/strong><\/p>\n<p>Depression<br \/>\n     Anger turned inward because of disappointment from unrealistic expectations<br \/>\nAll depressed people are angry inside.<br \/>\nHave not forgiven themselves or the situation resulting from expectations.<br \/>\nWhy were the expectations false?<br \/>\nBecause they came from the wrong tree.<br \/>\nWhen eating from the tree of the Knowledge of Good and Evil, all conversation is bound up in Justifying, Accusing and Defending<br \/>\nWe are trying to put ourselves up and the other person down thus gaining control<br \/>\nWhen a person is disobedient they give the right for the spirit of judgment to bind people into making a judgment thus activating control.<br \/>\nIf I committed adultery and you heard about it, what do you do?<br \/>\n     So easy to fall into judgment.<br \/>\n     What should one do?<br \/>\n\t(1) Immediately make a decision to refuse to judge.<br \/>\n\t(2) Repent of that sin because when one member sins we all sin.<br \/>\n\t     1Cor 12:26<br \/>\nOperating out of Law one can argue. Ex 21:24 Eye for eye.<br \/>\nOperating  by the Spirit there is no argument, just the will of Father God for each person at that moment of time. John 3:8<br \/>\nFather God\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s Kingdom is ruled by LOVE. Why?<br \/>\n\tThat is His nature 1 John 4:8<br \/>\n\tSpeak the truth in Love Eph 4:15<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"mailto:royw@ihug.co.nz\">Contact Roy Waldrom<\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>By Roy Waldrom Unrealistic Expectations Depression Anger turned inward because of disappointment from unrealistic expectations All depressed people are angry inside. Have not forgiven themselves or the situation resulting from expectations. Why were the expectations false? Because they came from &hellip; <a href=\"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/?page_id=47\">Continue reading <span class=\"meta-nav\">&rarr;<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":42,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","template":"","meta":{"ngg_post_thumbnail":0,"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-47","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/47"}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=47"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/47\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":541,"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/47\/revisions\/541"}],"up":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/pages\/42"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/forgiveit.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=47"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}